While I am definitely not an expert in motherhood, I have been mothering someone for the last 32 years.  I first practiced on my siblings, and while they routinely reminded me that I was not, in fact, their mother…it did not deter me from bossing them around.  My two oldest will be turning 10 next week and I routinely remind them, and their younger brothers, that I am their mother and I am allowed to boss them around.  And in honor of officially mothering for the last 10 years, I thought I would share what I have learned.  Some lessons were from trial and error, some from enlightening conversations with my…